If a door won't open, it's not your door.
With that being said: I am grateful for everything that didn't work out in the past while I used to think that it would. I am also accepting the fact that some doors will not open in the future and that is completely okay. 🙆🏽
But what I am also saying with this is that I learned not to slam a door open. When it's closed, I keep it closed because obviously whatever is behind that door is not meant to bring me any further in my life. Coming to this conclusion brings me a lot of contentment and makes me feel relaxed instead of anxious and nervous ↫ two feelings I would always strongly feel in these type of situations.
What I also like about this metaphor is that you can also imagine a room where you place things, people, (negative) thoughts, experiences which you always wanted to put to an end, you then grab your imaginary key 🗝️, lock the door and throw the damn key away!
I think it's a great way to let go of things that no longer bring you any purpose in life.
What do you think? How do you deal with these type of situations? Let me know, xo Chantal!💗